A few thoughts
on this case which many of us have been following closely.
#1 – Aflie is not Charlie
Despite
many comparisons, Alfie’s case is not the same as Charlie Gard’s, the
similarities notwithstanding.
The main
difference is that Charlie was, according to his doctors, suffering and in
pain. The cause of his pain was not so much his disease, as the invasive
medical equipment which was keeping him alive. In short, the cost of keeping
Charlie alive was to keep him in pain and in suffering.
Charlie’s
parents had their hopes set on treatment in America. But when the actual facts
came out, it turned out that the treatment they had been offered was a farce.
There was no indication it would help him in any way, it had never even been
tested on mice and there was not even any guarantee that it wouldn’t make him
worse.
Alfie,
on the other hand, does not seem to be in pain, at least that is not what the
hospital and courts have been saying, so far as I can make out. The problem
does not seem to be that he will suffer if kept alive, the problem – again, as
far as I can make out based on the press – is that doctors and judge consider
that to keep him alive is futile. This is a not so subtle way of saying that
his life is not worth living.
Alfie’s
parents do not have their hopes set on some maverick doctor providing a miracle
treatment, they just want him to live as long as he can, cared for and as
comfortable as possible. They understand that he will not live as long as a
healthy little boy, but they refuse to accept that this means he is not worth
being cared for. The way his life has moved countless people would seem to
prove beyond doubt that even a life that is materially unproductive is not
futile.
#2 – The doctors are not psychopaths
A lot of
the rhetoric from people defending Alfie and his parents is disturbing. I don’t
believe the doctors have anything but Alfie’s best interest at heart. Of
course, that does not mean that their idea of his best interest coincides
with mine or is even correct.
This happened
with Charlie Gard as well. Some of the things said about the health
professionals was absolutely disgraceful. In that case I had a personal stake
in the issue, since at the age of 10 I was admitted to Great Ormond Street and
was treated with spectacular care and attention. I have nothing but the warmest
memories. I have no personal connection to Alder Hey, but find it unlikely that
its staff is composed of zombies and cold blooded killers. The hateful rhetoric
helps no one.
However,
that being said, there are some disturbing indications coming out from Alder
Hey. In my experience doctors already have a natural tendency towards
arrogance, especially when dealing with people who have little or no medical
knowledge.
One paragraph struck me in the Guardian’s coverage of the hearing on Tuesday. “The
clinician, who cannot be named but who was one of the team treating Alfie on
Monday night, said the hostile atmosphere had created a ‘genuine fear’ among
fellow doctors and that there would have to be ‘a sea change’ in their
relationship with the family before they could consider letting him go home.”
What?!
This sounds a lot like “hey, change your attitude and then maybe we will think
of lending you this little boy you say is your son, but who is actually our
property”. Are they mad?
This
arrogance seems to confirm what we, outside Britain, hear about State and
health worker’s attitudes towards families. I know of several non-British residents in London who will avoid taking their children to hospital at all costs, for fear of raising suspicions of abuse. Even if this is an exaggeration, the fact
that people feel that way is in itself cause for alarm.
#3 – Whose children are they?
The
crucial question here is, does the State have the right to override parents
decisions regarding their own children? In short, yes, it does. If it did not,
then there would be no safeguards against child abuse. You can’t
get your five year old drunk on Vodka every two days and say you’re his dad so
that’s ok.
However,
if there is any situation in which the state should exercise its power in the
most conservative way possible, it’s this one. A parent’s connection to his
child is a sacred bond, it should not be severed lightly.
So yes,
it is possible for a judge to rule against the parents in a case like this, but
that doesn’t mean that the state is always right in doing so. When the state is
wrong in these cases, it is oh so very, very, very wrong, and the injustices
caused should make all involved shudder.
#4 – The people are rebelling…
Regardless
of who is in the right in this or that particular case, there can be no doubt
that we are heading down a path where life is seen, more and more, through the
lens of utility rather than inherent value.
Euthanasia,
which is gaining ground in so many countries despite the alarming signs coming
out of Belgium and Holland, is another way of saying that our life loses value
when we cease to be productive and that dignity is something we define
ourselves, rather than being inherent.
So it is
not surprising that doctors, judges and others will increasingly begin to look
at cases like Alfie’s and just think “why bother?” It may not be about money, although
that can be a worrying factor, it’s just about not seeing the point.
And this
is not exclusive to Britain. Friends of mine who have a child with a rare cognitive
and physical condition which essentially renders him completely dependent, have
spoken about their despair at going to the hospital and feeling, even if it
wasn’t said out loud, that the doctors didn’t understand why they didn’t just
let their child die.
So it is
interesting to see – and probably shocking for many – that in cases like Alfie’s,
where the parents fight back, people are backing them up. They are taking to
the streets, they are organizing prayer vigils, they are protesting on social
media. Maybe not always in the best way, maybe not in the best terms, but they
are rebelling.
The
de-dignification of human life runs counter to what we are. We know, deep down,
that we are more than what we produce, than what we feel, than the pleasure we
enjoy or the suffering we endure. When we see an old and ill person saying they
just want it all to end, then maybe we keep silent out of supposed respect for
their autonomy, but when we see a man climbing on to a ledge our instinct is
still to talk him back down and when we see doctors saying, or seemingly
saying, that a baby’s life is not worth the effort, we lash out.
Let this
be a warning. Let those who make our laws and policies take heed. Let their
arrogance not be their undoing.
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